LGBTQ+ family building

Care that doesn't require translating yourself.

Your Business has been quietly building one of the largest LGBTQ+ fertility programs in the Pacific Northwest since 2012. Two of our doctors have built their own families through reciprocal IVF and donor sperm. We know the questions before they're asked.

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Pathways

Four common routes to the same answer.

Most LGBTQ+ patients we see are exploring one or two of the paths below. We'll help you choose, and we'll handle every part — including donor selection and surrogate matching where needed.

Reciprocal IVF

One partner provides the egg, the other carries the pregnancy. Both are biologically connected to your child. About 35% of our female-female couples choose this path.

  • One IVF cycle, one transfer to gestational partner
  • Sperm donor selection (open, anonymous, known)
  • Mental-health counseling included

Donor sperm + IUI or IVF

The most common path for single people and female-female couples. We work with all major sperm banks (Cryos, Fairfax, California Cryobank, Seattle Sperm) and several smaller ones.

  • Sperm bank counseling & donor matching
  • Medicated IUI cycles or IVF
  • Open-ID donors widely available

Gestational surrogacy

For male-male couples and single fathers, or for any patient who cannot carry a pregnancy. We handle the IVF side; partner agencies handle carrier matching.

  • Donor egg matching (in-house program)
  • 3 vetted gestational-carrier agencies
  • Legal & medical screening fully managed

Fertility preservation for trans patients

Egg or sperm freezing before gender-affirming hormone therapy or surgery, with care that uses your name and pronouns from intake forward. Dr. Castellanos coordinates this program.

  • Pre-HRT egg or sperm cryopreservation
  • Trans-affirming clinical staff
  • Insurance navigation for state-mandated coverage
Our pledge

Five things you can count on from intake.

These aren't promises we make to LGBTQ+ patients. They're promises we make to every patient — they're listed here because they tend to be where the experience falls apart elsewhere.

Names & pronouns from form one

Our intake forms ask for chosen name, legal name, and pronouns separately. Charts show all three. Every clinician sees them.

Both parents on documentation

We'll list both parents on every form, every record, every superbill — not "patient" and "support person."

Donor education without judgment

Open-ID, anonymous, known — we'll walk through the implications of each. Your choice, not ours.

Insurance coverage advocacy

Many plans still write "infertility" in heteronormative terms. Our billers know how to argue back.

Mental-health support included

Two free sessions with an LGBTQ+-affirming therapist for any donor or surrogacy cycle.

Doctors who get it

Dr. Park and Dr. Castellanos lead this program. Both have built their own LGBTQ+ families.

The first form they handed me had three lines: legal name, name you go by, pronouns. I cried in the parking lot. It was the smallest piece of paper, but it felt like the first time I wasn't going to have to fight for the next nine months. Em, 31Patient of Dr. Castellanos · pre-HRT egg freezing

Questions we hear often.

If yours isn't here, ask in your consultation form — we read every one.

Will my insurance cover any of this?

It depends on your state and plan. Washington and Oregon both have partial mandates that increasingly include same-sex couples. Our billers will run a full benefits check before you start treatment, and our financial counselor will walk you through what's covered and what isn't.

Can we use a known sperm donor (a friend)?

Yes. We require FDA-mandated screening (about 6 months) and recommend a brief legal-counseling session with an attorney experienced in donor agreements. We can refer you to two we've worked with for years.

For reciprocal IVF — does the carrying partner have legal parentage automatically?

In Washington, Oregon, and California, yes. We still recommend a confirmatory-adoption or pre-birth-order process for travel and across-state-line protection. We'll connect you with a family-law attorney before transfer.

How is donor sperm chosen?

You choose. We're agnostic about which sperm bank you use — most patients pick from Cryos, Seattle Sperm Bank, or California Cryobank. We'll review profiles with you and screen donors against your medical history.

For trans patients on HRT — do we have to stop hormones?

Trans women on estrogen typically need to pause for sperm retrieval (typically 3 months). Trans men on testosterone typically need to pause for egg retrieval (typically 3-6 months). Dr. Castellanos walks each patient through what's clinically necessary versus what's overcautious.

Wherever you are in this

We'd love to meet you.

Schedule a consultation with Dr. Park or Dr. Castellanos. Bring questions, bring your partner, bring a list of fears. We'll meet you where you are.

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